Redefining Success: Why a Job is Essential, But a Dream Job Isn't the Only Path to Happiness

When Vanessa was made redundant last year, the question "What's next?" felt anything but simple. Her career, a patchwork of roles stumbled upon by chance rather than choice, reflects a journey many can relate to. From modelling at 19 to working in social media and marketing, Vanessa's roles were fulfilling yet never planned. At 26, she struggles to identify a job that fully aligns with her talents, challenging the societal pressure to have a "dream job."

Watching my mum shaped my beliefs around work

Vanessa's childhood, marked by frequent moves, contrasted sharply with her mother's linear path in Zimbabwe. Her mother's nursing job, which brought them to Australia amidst Zimbabwe's crisis, taught Vanessa that a job is merely a tool — a means to an end. This perspective highlights the illusion of stability work provides, emphasizing true stability comes from harmony in housing, food, healthcare, and finances.

The 'unemployed' label

The stigma of unemployment weighs heavily, driving Vanessa to apply for jobs she doesn't want, a cycle many face. Past roles, accepted out of necessity rather than alignment, often lacked boundaries between work and personal life, leading to concessions that didn't serve her well. What Vanessa truly seeks is a secure contract, livable income, and a collaborative team environment, with creativity and customer service as bonuses.

Life satisfaction over job satisfaction

Vanessa finds fulfillment outside work, in dreams of home ownership, family time, and volunteering at her local radio station. These moments of connection and joy underscore her belief that while a job is essential, a dream job is not the sole source of happiness. Her story invites us to reconsider our definitions of success and fulfillment.